“He tried to make sure he was involved with as many sports as possible, whether he trained you or didn’t, he knew who you were,” echoed Williams. “I think that's important, because he put himself out there for the student-athletes to know him and to ask him questions if they needed anything.”
Putting himself out there is what helped Keith’s relationships transcend sports, and how he touched so many lives long after the games were finished.
“He wanted to see all of his athletes succeed, whether it was on the court or field, or not, he wanted to see them all succeed in whatever their goals were in life,” added Williams. “Some things are bigger than sports and you can learn a lot about life in the weightroom. We spend a lot of time with the athletes and sometimes they want to talk with you about these things. Being able to be a sponge, listen to them, and learn from them and with them, Keith did that well. He wanted to see everyone succeed.”
In order to help his athletes and teams find success, Keith employed a unique style.
“A lot of us coaches expect you to meet us where we’re at and then go together, but not Keith. What I most admired about him is he absolutely met you where you were at, and he took you with him to get you where you needed to go,” described LeBlanc. “He didn’t force anything and I think that’s how he got the most out of people.”
The Milford, Conn. native dedicated his life to serving others from an early age. He spent eight years in the United State Marine Corps from 1995-2003 as a squad leader, marksmen and combat swimming instructor.
“He just had a unique ability to make everyone happy,” related LeBlanc. “You couldn’t get mad at Keith because he only wanted the best for everyone. Even if he had to say no to you, you weren’t mad at him. He made things happen, shifted things around, he was so flexible and all the things that are really hard to be in DI athletics. All the way from the top athlete in a premier program, to a walk on kid in a non-premier program, he made everyone feel valued.”
Keith was always thinking of others before himself. He was at every practice, lift and game in-person when he could be. And when he couldn’t, he constantly wanted all the latest updates on his department and student-athletes, and even found ways to continue watching every game from the hospital during his treatments.
“I remember the first time I met his wife,” shared Harring. “We met at a soccer game up at UNH. We were freezing and drinking hot chocolate, and he was just there randomly on a Thursday night supporting men’s soccer. And back on campus, he would spend time with the student-athletes in the dining hall, just talking to them and guiding them, seeing what they’re eating just to make sure that it was good enough and helping some kids along the way. He was a giver, he would always put everyone else in front of himself.”